First Lutheran Church, Detroit Lakes, MN
Lent 4 | 03.27.2022 | Luke 15:1-3, 11b-32
Today’s parable, a famous one, is the Parable of the Prodigal Son.
There’s always a danger in labeling Jesus’ parables, though. For instance, The Prodigal Son means the reckless or lost son, which no doubt is a main theme here, but there’s much more to this story than just the younger son.
For instance, the parable opens up with the fact that there’re TWO sons (Luke 15:11). I wonder why we only emphasize the younger. The older son has a MAJOR role in the story. Maybe we should name this The Parable of the Two Sons.
And what about the father in the parable? Perhaps Jesus’ main character in the story was the dad. Why not, The Parable of a Loving Dad?
This is all to say, titling a parable leads us into a certain focus – which is fine! We just need to remember that Jesus’ parables are dynamic with multiple emphases. So, to shift our focus on this famous parable, I want to offer us a different title today: instead of the Prodigal Son, let’s call it, The Parable of the Rule Breaking Family.
With that label in mind, let’s recap:
There’re three characters: a father, an older son, and a younger son.
The younger son tells his father that he wants his inheritance early. This is the first breaking of the rules in the story. As was ancient custom in “Jewish families, sons inherited goods and property from their fathers…only after a father’s death;” so, according to one scholar, “the younger son’s request [was] unusual,”[1] if not downright rude.
Equally as odd…the father then allows it and offers his son the inheritance! More rule-breaking. The father is not supposed to do this. In one ancient text, the Book of Sirach, it says that fathers are not to give their property up before they die [quote]:
24 …in the hour of death, [then]distribute your inheritance.
-Sirach 33 (20, 23-24)
In Jesus’ parable the father is breaking this rule.
At that point, the younger son takes the inheritance and blows it on what the passage calls, “dissolute living” (15:13), or a selfish lifestyle. He takes ‘treating yourself’ a little too far. More rule-breaking.
After spending all his money, the younger son picks up a job in the fields feeding pigs (v. 15). This may seem a harmless detail, but the younger son’s choice of occupation is, in fact, another moment of rule-breaking.
In ancient Jewish custom the pig was considered unclean. This was not an honorable occupation chosen by the younger son.[2]
So, at this point, the younger son has dishonored his father by demanding his inheritance before he dies, blown the money on a high-octane superficial lifestyle. Then he got a job working with pigs, disgracing his Jewish heritage and family religion.
For Jesus’ original audience, this younger son would not have just been a flawed character, but a multi-layered screw-up, if not loathsome.
At this point in the parable, the younger son hits rock bottom. He loses his job and goes into poverty. He becomes desperate in this mess of his own making, so he decides to return to his father and plead with him (v. 18). He gets to the outskirts of his father’s property and begins rehearsing his apology and plea for mercy. We have ZERO indication that he was even being sincere.
What happened next is CRITICAL. Before the younger son could even give his rehearsed confession, and certainly before he’d cleaned up his act, the father spotted him in the distance. What did his dad do? It says that the father was “filled with compassion”, and he ran to his son, “put his arms around him and kissed him” (v. 20).
It’s beautiful, but outrageous. Also, it’s more rule-breaking!
First of all, you’d think the father would demand an apology and for the son to “make it right.” In Ezekiel 18 (32), a misbehaving son like this was put to death for such nonsense. But, here? Nope. The father embraces his reckless son…without even so much as an apology.
Also, the father ran to him. This is an interesting detail, because one of my NT professors (Arland Hultgren) explained that, according to ancient norms, esteemed men did not run.[3] More rule breaking! He did what foolish men did. The father showed no composure.
The father, showed no restraint and ran to embrace this loathsome son. Oh, and then…he threw him a lavish party.
Meanwhile, the older, responsible son must have felt like he was in the twilight zone watching all this unfold. The text says, understandably, that “he became angry” and scolded his father (also a no-no: you don’t scold your dad in first century Israel): “Listen!” he said, “For all these years I have been working like a slave for you, and I have never disobeyed your command…But when this son of yours came back, who has devoured your property with prostitutes, you [throw him a party!?]” (vv. 28-30) Are you kidding me!?
I sympathize with the older son, but still, according the rules, the father should’ve then laid into the older son—“Okay, first of all, don’t be jealous! Thou shall not covet. Second, don’t you ever talk to me like that! Honor your father and mother.”
But no, the father doesn’t do any of that. As one scholar highlights:
…when the son makes his case, the father does not disagree or belittle…[instead, he responds,] ‘Son, you are always with me, and all that is mine is yours’ (v. 31).
It’s stunning.
The generosity lavished on the son who was lost…is now extended also to the [older] son…The father’s love knows no limitations.[4]
And that, right there, is a major thrust of this parable: the father’s love knows no limitations.
If the dad in the parable represents God, then God is willing to break all the rules in order to love and be merciful to God’s children…even when we break the rules.
This has a lot of implications for us.
For instance, perhaps some of us identify with the younger son, that we’ve broken too many rules and feel we’ve got a lot of work to do in order to be accepted again. But here Jesus says that God is willing to sprint towards mercy for us, and not wait for us ‘to make it right.’
Perhaps some of us identify with the older son – we’re trying our best, we’re doing things as right as we can, and we watch others get more than us, and we don’t like it. And God says to us: “I love them. And I love you, too.”
That may not always be logical by our standards, but this famous parable reveals to us a God who is willing to break all the rules in the name of love. Amen.
[1] Richard W. Swanson, “Luke,” in Lutheran Study Bible (Minneapolis: Augsburg Fortress, 2009), 1731. (*emphasis mine).
[2] Charles B. Cousar, Beverly R. Gaventa, J. Clinton McCann, Jr., James D. Newsome, Texts for Preaching: A Lectionary Commentary Based on the NRSV—Year C (Louisville: Westminster John Knox Press, 1994), 226.
[3] Cf. David Lose, “Lent 4 C: The Prodigal God,” In the Meantime, http://www.davidlose.net/2016/02/lent-4-c-the-prodigal-god/
[4] Cousar, Gaventa, McCann, Jr., Newsome, Texts for Preaching, 227.